Even if you use a condom without fail, there may be times it slips off during sex or spontaneously bursts or ruptures. This can happen if the condom:
Wasn’t made properlyWasn’t stored at the right temperatureWas used after its expiration dateWas torn when taken out of the packetWas too small or too largeWas used with the wrong lubricantWasn’t put on or used properly
This article reviews the possible ways a condom can fail and how you can use a condom the right way to prevent condom failure.
Proper Condom Use
Proper condom use isn’t limited to the time you’re having sex. It starts from the moment you buy the condom and ends when you dispose of it. To prevent condom failure, there are 10 things you need to do:
Buy the Right-Sized Condom
To get the right size, measure your penis while it’s erect. This helps you know the right length, width, and girth. You can match the measurements to the sizing chart on the condom box.
Buy the Right Lubricant
Always use water-based or silicone-based lube with latex condoms.
Never use oil-based lube, including baby oil or coconut oil. This can damage the latex and increase the risk of rupture.
Never use lambskin condoms to prevent STIs, as they are not effective at doing so.. Only use condoms that are marked as approved by the Food and Drug Administration (FDA).
Store the Condom at the Right Temperature
You should not store condoms at temperatures over 100 degrees Fahrenheit or less than 32 degrees Fahrenheit. Keep condoms out of direct sunlight and never store them in the glove compartment of your car.
Check the Expiration Date
If the condom is expired, throw it out—no exceptions. There’s no guarantee of how effective it will be if it’s past the expiration date.
Remove the Condom From Its Packet Carefully
Tears often happen when you’re rushing and rip the condom package with your teeth. To avoid this, use nail scissors instead.
You can even take a condom out before sex and put it by your bed.
Learn How to Put Condoms on Correctly
Know what side of the condom is up and how to roll it on correctly with an open reservoir tip. Don’t wait until the last minute to learn how to use a condom. Practice either alone or with your partner to get it right before having sex.
Use Plenty of Personal Lubricant
Rupture can occur when there’s a lot of friction during sex.
Avoid this by using plenty of lubricant. If you need to, pull out to put on more lubricant. This is especially true if you or your partner have any vagina or penis piercings.
Remove the Condom Soon After Ejaculation
If you don’t take a condom off right away, your penis can shrink and the condom can slip off as you pull out. This can spill sperm into the vagina or rectum.
After ejaculating, pull out carefully, remove the condom, tie up the end to prevent it from spilling, and throw it away.
Don’t Reuse Condoms
Even if you want to have sex again with the same partner, resist the temptation to reuse a condom. There may be ejaculate on the outside of the condom. Plus, a used condom is more likely to burst.
Use Condoms Consistently
You can’t tell if someone has an STI by looking at them. Don’t let anyone talk you out of using condoms or suggest that pulling out early is safe. If you don’t have condoms, you can either wait until another time or engage in safer sex practices like mutual masturbation.
Other Considerations
It’s also good to know what condoms can’t effectively protect you from.
For example, research suggests using condoms 100% of the time only reduces your risk of genital herpes (herpes simplex virus type 2) by 30%. For that reason, you should know the signs and symptoms of herpes and avoid sex during an acute outbreak. The person with genital herpes can also be prescribed a daily anti-viral medication to suppress the virus and prevent transmission to their partner if their partner doesn’t have it.
Also, typical use of condoms is 80% effective in preventing HIV transmission during vaginal sex and 70% during anal sex. Female condoms can provide protection by approximately 97%
For more protection, someone with HIV should be on antiretroviral therapy to lower the chance of spreading their infection to their sexual partners. At the same time, their partners who don’t have HIV should consider taking pre-exposure prophylaxis, or PrEP. This will help lower their chance of infection.
Summary
Using condoms the right way can help prevent pregnancy and lower the risk of getting a sexually transmitted infection (STI). But certain factors can lead to condom failure, like using expired condoms, storing at the wrong temperature, or using an oil-based lubricant.
A Word From Verywell
If you don’t protect yourself each time you have sex, you risk an unplanned pregnancy. You also risk getting or passing on a sexually transmitted infection. Always use a new condom every time you have sex.
Spermicides: 21%Sponge: 14% to 27% (varies by pregnancy history)Fertility awareness: 2% to 23% (varies by method)Diaphragm: 17%Female condom: 21%Oral contraceptives: 7%NuvaRing: 7%Depo-Provera: 4%Intrauterine devices (IUDs): 0. 1% to 0. 8%Tubal ligation: 0. 5%Vasectomy: 0. 15%
Learn how to size condoms. Never use expired condoms. Avoid exposing condoms to high temperatures. Never store condoms in wallets. Carefully remove a condom from its packet. Learn how to put on a condom correctly. Never use oil-based lubricants with latex condoms. Never use nonoxynol-9 spermicide, as it can irritate genital tissue and increased the risk of STIs. Never “double-bag” condoms. Extract the penis before it goes “soft. “Never reuse condoms.
